I had a date today/tonight… :)
I feel trife because I made her top ramen with actual shrimp & dam near made her cry.. But in a good way..
Earlier we just chilled on campus & talked while she sketched some drawings.. We ended the night at my place..
Overall I think she really enjoyed herself.. The shit jusy flowed..
*But why did she tell me that my ex has been hitting on her through IG?*
(My ex doesn’t know that me & ole girl are somewhat talking so this is funny)
I had a date tonight. And he was white yall.
Well hes Puerto Rican and white. But he white. Knaw mean.
And we’re at this hole in the wall bar downtown. And talking and stuff. We’re laughing, and making eye contact, not touching but you can tell that we’re there together.
I’m sitting at the…
Idk how I feel about this. On one end, I like seeing brothers appreciate us. However, from what I’ve seen, men that are strangers don’t typically approach a woman while she is out with another man. It’s usually a sign of disrespect. And yall were on a date… What if he was your boyfriend? I guess homie didn’t see white dude as a threat.
I honestly feel like the DUMBEST broad of all time right now. Because he didn’t. You’re right. Total disrespect. He didn’t even acknowledge him. He pulled his metaphorical balls out in front of that white boy and said this is “my” bw and I didn’t even see it. I just learned a lesson tonight. Yall schoolin me right now. LMAO
Or maybe he really just liked your hair and decided to compliment you on it. I feel like it’s all about your perception. You can either choose to see it as a bad thing and as disrespectful.. Or you can look at it positively and say hey, the brother was complimenting me.
Either way all you’re doing is assuming.. unless you track the guy down and ask him what his true intentions were.. So why not go with the assumption that makes you feel the best?
That’s just how I would choose to look at it. You were on a date and another guy came up and complimented you, you’re winning tonight girl! Lol
I agree its an assumption. It just didn’t feel right. You know how your gut be telling you something and you may not comprehend it but you know its SOMETHING. It’s like I said in my initial post, something juuuuust didn’t seem right about that.
Well definitely trust your intuition.
I guess I think that way because when it comes to myself I just think about how I sometimes have preconceived notions about black men because of things I’ve dealt with in my past.. So sometimes when black men give me attention I automatically think they have an ulterior-motive. I’m trying my best not to think that way anymore. I don’t want to put all black men in the “ain’t shit” category lol. I feel like when we do that we’re doing nothing but manifesting more and more of the type of men we hate into out lives instead of being positive and open to the ones we want.
But ur right girl, you have to listen to what your intuition is telling you. It never fails you.
Lmbo throwing his ass some shade
Why can’t a girl feel good in a hijab and not worry about not being Muslim enough for her community? Because through all the glares, whispering, discrimination, and hate from both Muslims and Non-Muslims, I assure you a little self esteem boost won’t make up for what she has to deal with on a daily basis. Give our Muslim women some credit.
A strange homoerotic dream that involved random men kissing other men and women kissing other women at the Cooler in Occidental. Saw a bearded androgynous person as well who tried to convince me to give money to some church, which I refused to do. Wale came up out of nowhere and tried to hit on…
Lmbo this is literally the funniest shit ever.. that wale part though. “Them bitches aint got what you got.”
That sounds like some shit he’d say
Okkkk, so is Donald Glover aka Choldosh Gambino the child of Danny Glover or not?
That’s really been the most baffling question for me for the past year..
I love women